He said he lived a long time.
They thought he was telling a story. He based his story on facts. They thought
he pulled them out of a textbook. He argued that the facts came first and the
textbook next. They thought he was arrogant. He said he was a man who was once
revered. They thought he was Jesus. He said the sound was always John!
A silent song...a lone battle...LIFE..!!
Thursday, May 14, 2015
Sunday, September 8, 2013
COFFEE DREAMS – 3
“I miss you..!”
“Why
do all these conversations between us start like this?”
“None of them were ever
intended to.”
“But
somehow they always do.”
“Because these conversations
happen only then.”
“How
can you miss me when I have been here all this while?”
“I am in the quest for an
answer for the same and I need your help.”
“How
can I help you when the quest is yours? And why should I?”
“Because at some level, the
quest is yours too. Because for some time, the journey is yours too.”
“What
changed now?”
“Just a realization that we
think similarly in most situations except when a conflict occurs.”
“Why
does a conflict occur in the first place if we think similarly in most
situations?”
“Perhaps there lies the
conflict.”
“How
is that a conflict?”
“As much as we empathize with
each other on an emotional level and as much as we know about each other, there
is still a lot we want to know about each other and want each other to know
about ourselves.”
“True.
But that doesn’t sound like a conflict.”
“It is not exactly a conflict
by itself. But when we communicate with each other about that on different
pages, a conflict arises.”
“How
were we not on the same page in the first place?”
“There comes the point of freedom
into the scene. When you want to know me, you kind of know what you want to
know of me. You ask. I don’t. When I want to know you, I want you to decide
what I should know of you. I want you to tell me what I know of you and what I
don’t. I want you to tell me what I should know to know YOU. I believe in giving
more freedom than I take.”
“Then,
why don’t you tell when I ask?”
“I do tell. But I realized that
what I tell is not always the truth. And I also realized that I don’t realize that
I am not telling the truth.”
“What
does that mean?”
“When a person changes, he
changes towards a particular vision of his own. So was I. I was trying so much
to be the person I wanted to be that I always told myself that I became that
person. But a conflict arises when you are not exactly the person you wanted to
be YET, but you say you are. And when a situation which tests your character
comes to the fore, you can never be sure which trait comes forward.”
“Hmmm…
Why don’t you ask what you want to know?”
“I am scared of taking liberty.
I am scared because that makes me call you a friend.”
“Am
I not?”
“You are. And no one is better
than you are. You are the closest who came to being called one.”
“What
stopped you?”
“The same conflict which
brought up this discussion in the first place.”
“You
still can.”
“There is not enough time.”
“Did
time ever stop anything from happening that’s bound to happen?”
“Never. But from my vanity
point, I see a limited time available. There is a lot of ground to be recovered
and covered. The question is whether to make the best use of the limited time,
or not care enough about it because the time is limited.”
“What
now?”
Friday, November 30, 2012
LONG DUE..
Long due was a long conversation
Long due was a long drive for the same
Long due was a nod of approval
Long due was a hug of relief.
Never before was the truth so honest
Never before was honesty so simple
Never before was simplicity so pure
Never before was purity so true.
True came the coffee dreams
True were the hidden truths
True were the untold words
True came everything except the fears.
Unasked question were answered
Untold feelings were unmasked
Uncomfortable silence was far
Unanticipated changes reminisced
The heart is light and the mind now calm,
For pouring the heart in and out,
With a spoon of sugar and a pinch of salt,
Life has just become more beautiful..!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
AND THE BELLS RANG..
It was a lazy Sunday
afternoon.
I was sitting in the
living room trying to fix a broken tape-recorder giving an impression of
omniscience to the outsiders, but the truth evident to everyone that I do not
know anything electrical – one of the reasons why I couldn’t clear IIT-JEE
mains. My father came into the house with a tired but happy expression, after
which looked like a hectic but successful morning behind him, and said, “Get ready fast. We have to go see the girl.”
My parents have been
looking for a suitable girl for me from the past few weeks.
We went to the girl’s
house and knocked on the door. Her father opened the door and welcomed us in.
And there she was standing in a black t-shirt and white shorts cleaning the
dust on some books. She welcomed us and went inside to get ready. I was shocked
at seeing her attire that I didn’t have the time to look at her face or her
beauty. And my thoughts started wandering everywhere – “How will a conservative and traditional family like mine accept a
girl who is in a t-shirt and shorts when the boy’s family goes to see her?”
While my mind is messing
itself up with all such thoughts, she entered back into the living room decked
in a red pattu saree, in perhaps
shockingly the least amount of time I saw a woman dress up. And my brain
stopped thinking and went blank looking at her beauty. I did not realize I was
just staring at her until she came to me and said, “C’mon. Let’s go.”
And there I go into
shock again! I was not sure how much time passed after we came, or what our
dads were talking, or where our moms were (of course, kitchen!), or what her
father was asking me. May be, my brain was thinking too much to listen to
anything else – until she came. I wasn’t sure what to respond and looked at her
father for permission. Her father nodded smiling, “We will give you both some time.Talk to each other and come back.” I
was surprised at the response because he hasn’t asked me any questions that a
guy is asked in an arranged marriage – or at least what I thought would be
asked. May be, he did and may be, I answered. I was in a shock to remember anything
that happened until then.
We went for a walk. I
felt the flood of happiness drowning me. I didn’t know why. I haven’t talked to
her yet. I haven’t looked her in the eyes yet. I haven’t heard her voice yet. Yet,
I was walking on clouds. I slowly turned my face to look at her. And I realized
she was talking. I tried to listen to what she was saying. I couldn’t. I realized
I was just staring at her. I pinched myself to come to senses and to listen
what she was talking. She wasn’t talking about marriage, life after that, her,
me or us. She was just talking randomly – like you talk to a very old friend –
like you talk to yourself – like you talk to the soul which defines you. At the
same time, I also realized that she talks a lot – and it was the same thing that
makes her so beautiful and complete.
A lot of questions
popped up in my mind then. “I am a good
listener and I can listen to her for any long. But if at all I want to talk,
will she give me a chance to talk?”, “If
she talks so much, will she take the decisions and be the head of the house and
make me a puppet?”, “I have some
questions which I want to ask her now. How can I stop her?” I knew the
answer. But, with a sense of doubt, I slowly looked behind. Our dads were
walking few yards behind us and moms few feet behind them. They also wanted to
talk and perhaps, they also found the unconfined space of the roads better than
the confined space of a living room. I looked at my dad trying to ask all these
doubts in mind. He replied with the most satisfactory smile I have ever seen of
his and looked at my mom. She understood his smile and looked at her little kid
grown up. They were smiling at my helpless happiness.
And that was my answer
to all the questions. It was the same happiness which anyone would ever want in
a life to start together, irrespective of all the questions that pop up.
Gathering all the courage
from within, I stopped her and asked her the most important question for an
answer I was supposed to know, “What is
your name?” She started laughing.
The bells started ringing. I slowly turned to my side. It was 4:15 AM and it was my first alarm for the morning!
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
COFFEE DREAMS – 2
“I
missed you..!”
“After all this time?”
“Always!”
“What does that mean?”
“Nothing
more than what was said.”
“But there are others for
you.”
“I
don’t miss talking with them. Because I talk with them.”
“Why do you have to talk with
me?”
“Because
I want to. Because you talk well with many people and I also want to be one of
them.”
“Are you jealous?”
“No.
Not jealous because someone else has something which I don’t have. It is just
that I too could have had that.”
“Chance? Or choice?”
“Chance,
once. Choice, now.”
“Sometimes all you have to
do is ask.”
“I
want to. But I fear the response.”
“What do you think the
response will be?”
“Another
set of questions just like everything that came out of your mouth until now.”
“What do you want the response
to be?”
“After
all this… I don’t know.”
“What if you had a choice
to go back?”
“I
would choose the same what I chose and be where I am. I am what I am today
because of the choices I made yesterday.
And I don’t regret any of the choices I made. In fact, I am happy I made
those.”
“What is it you would want
to change then?”
“The
results of those choices.”
“Why do you think it has
become so complicated?”
“Because
we don’t live in the past. But the past doesn’t go anywhere. Every day that
passes by, a day is added to it from the future.”
“But the present remains always
the same. Just one day. Just this moment.”
“Yes.
This moment. The same moment which defines me or you or anyone, for that matter.
The present. The only consolation between all the confusions.”
“What is the confusion?”
“Whether
to call or not. Whether to meet or not. Whether to explain or not. Whether to
want to do all these or not. I miss the friendship that was. Not that I can be
the same person I was nor do I expect you to be the same person you were. But
when I see people around us happy with their friendships with others, with you
and with me, it makes me wonder if we could be the same old friends again.”
“I do not want to be called
a friend by anyone nor will I call someone one.”
“That
does not stop you from being one.”
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